This is a very different situation for me, since the typical sign that someone is really into me is reflected in his wanting to call me / be with me fairly often.
He wants to see me each weekend, but unless I get upset about his lack of attention during the week, the time between Monday and Thursday just doesn’t seem to be a real priority for him where I’m concerned.
What compounds the problem in my mind is that he is still active on two dating websites, which he says is “very limited” in usage, that he is just looking for “friends” in which he has no emotional ties to, since he’s happy and contented with me (allegedly) at this point in our relationship.
He is using this as a basis for keeping me at arm’s length emotionally, and while I understand what he is attempting to do, it is becoming increasingly frustrating for me.
Our typical m.o., week after week, is that we have a wonderful, close, electric weekend together, and then nothing for most of the week.
Each time, it has clouded his judgment, and he got stuck in rather dysfunctional relationships, which obviously didn’t work out.
He has been married once, and was in a long-term (five year) relationship with someone else.
One-sided decision making, limited communication, and excluding you from his life’s details are different ways to tell if he’s committed or casual. If you’ve been dating for, say, eight weeks and you’ve never laid eyes on his friends or family, it’s time to start asking questions. Sure, we all get busy and sometimes work sends us places where friends and family are scarce. (“There’s going to be so many people you don’t know.