The men I've encountered here are very passive- a girl has to practically fling herself at a man in order to sustain his attention.
And I am an attractive, stylish person who works out regularly.
This was fine when I first got here, but now that I'm open to more I am realizing how tough it is to meet someone for an actual relationship. Before anyone says meet someone at church I want to put it out there that the last time I stepped foot in one was when I was forced into a Catholic high school ~15 years ago. I don't mean to say there's anything wrong with dating apps, but there's not accountability for the person you're meeting.
Either you're mr/ms right and things will naturally progress, or you're just mr/ms right now and its easy for either party to walk away and just say it was just a Tinder relationship.
They know what they're doing, and they do everything for you.