They exchanged a few more emails, and Abe asked for her phone number.
And then when they get into a relationship with you, they often clam up. But at the same time, how wonderful is it to have a secret portal to his character and relationship-readiness from that first conversation?
My client “Arielle” received a sweet email from “Abe” on Plenty of Fish. He was nice-looking, fully dressed in every photo, didn’t have any pictures of motorcycles or large dead fish, and his email was kind and polite.
She wants to be able to share Holiday dinners with her significant other and her close family, and Abe would not fit into her lifestyle. She had all the information she needed to know that he was not someone she wanted date.
She told him it was nice talking, but felt they were not a good match. Here’s the email he sent a few minutes later: My parents taught us by living the golden rule of kindness and care for others.
Posted by Sandy Weiner in communication skills in dating, dating after divorce, red flags in relationships | 0 comments Two words of advice for women dating after 40: PAY ATTENTION.