I’m a black woman who’s been in a relationship with a white man for 6 years. He loves to ski and I like to eat pigs feet (We are a match made in heaven). I’ll clue you in on what works, and what doesn’t work when you’re trying to nab a Nubian goddess. You may have a specific black woman in mind that you want to date, or many . Because I like you and if you want in to the society of men who’ve dated black women, I want to help you. It’s usually obvious that they’re interested in us romantically.
Most importantly on a Friday night, she was a straight woman in gay bar who wasn’t playing the I’m-such-a-fabulous-fag-hag card while taking up way more space than necessary. I have a theory about white women and black men, and it goes a little something like this.
and pretty much everywhere with thriving gay nightlife! She was just making conversation, and she was doing most of the heavy lifting, so I let her flex her stuff. Actually, I find them more attractive than white people. In real life, the Kardashians and Jenners aside, Ariana Grande, Heidi Klum, Iggy Azalea, and Nicole Kidman, are just several famous white women who have fallen for famous black men (Rapper Big Sean, singer Seal, NBA star Nick Young, and Lenny Kravitz, respectively).
So yeah, there is black slang that some black people use. Sometimes black people will say things to me and I have no idea what they’re talking about. So, don’t feel like you have to change your tastes to date a black woman.
It’s a great idea to be open to trying new things that she may want to share with you, but that’s the typical process of dating and getting to know someone. I wish you love and luck on your journey into the magical world of black women!
Either way, you’re on brand and I’m here to support you. Now of course, all black men are different blah blah blah, I’m about to paint with a broad stroke here but, I can do that.