That’s totally cool if you think straight black hair and almond-shaped dark eyes are beautiful—I like them too!But if you find me physically attractive because of that and try to learn more about me, you can decide whether my personality is equally charming — just like I have the choice of deciding if you’re worth my time and company.Details that seemed insignificant before begin to leap out at you now: Why does Lindsay already claim to be completely in love with you when she doesn’t even know what you do at your job? When you two passed by a group of LA Dodgers fans on the street, didn’t she start a random rant on how they are and said that you are “so much classier and just manlier,” when she knows you have many friends who sport the blue and white?
But just because I’m Asian and female, why do some men make the automatic assumptions that I am quiet, docile, great at domestic tasks, eager to please men and that my vagina is more magical than average?
And I am supposed to feel complimented when those people are attracted to me?
So I’m taking another stab at clarifying why these remarks and thoughts are wrong.
Let’s say you were born into a family of hard-core Giants fans. You are and always will be a Giants fan until the day you die — you know you might as well never go home if you change the team you cheer for.
They say things like, “I would be stoked if anybody said they have the hots for me!